Another pany-hose question?

Actually you are abnormal, because you are so healthy. Everyone has es, desires, wishes that they are scared to explore, or I should say most not everyone. There are so many couples who are incompatible in the bedroom because one is scared to be totally open with the other. That is great that you are so open he felt he could tell you, and that you were willing to work through the feelings and the initial reaction that you had. Way to go!